Well, I've been here for almost two weeks and so far it's been a fairly balanced experience. I learned my first lesson in Roman travel within hours of arriving, but more on that later. I know most of you have heard a second-hand version from my sister on Facebook, so I'll give you the whole gag.
We got onto our scheduled flight at JFK just fine, and arrived at Charles de Gaulles airport outside Paris around 7 AM, their time. We moved to our scheduled departure area, set to leave for 9:30 AM. The flight was delayed twice before they announced it was cancelled due to a baggage handlers' strike in Rome. A rebooking of our flight was cancelled later that night, so we remained at the airport for two days, napping on the floor under chairs and waiting in endless lines to reschedule our flight. Air France lost baggage that never left the airport. Personalities - and problems - were clearly established. Poor planning was unveiled. Gay boys waiting for planes to Milan got help with their English homework from all-too-obliging Americans also stuck. We bonded. I still had no idea who my flatmates were. And so on, and so forth. To be honest, I'm glossing over two hellish days, but I think you get the picture.
We finally arrived in Rome late at night on Friday the 7th, where we promtly discovered that several of us had lost important pieces of luggage, including my friend Josè, whose luggage had an estimated worth of $3500. We were all livid, jet-lagged, and lit fuses. The two teachers decided that the best way to get us home was to have us take the train, then taxis since they'd spent all the money on buses earlier, sending them to pick us up when we were still in Paris.
Now we get to the fun part.
My address is 97 Borgo Vittorio, which is NOT 97 Corso Vittorio. Our cab dropped us off at the latter, and while we got out of the cab, confused and unsure it was the right place, he started taking suitcases out of the trunk and demanding 20 Euro. He then drove off.
With my backpack, which was in the back seat with me.
Which contained my laptop and precious writing, digital camera, PSP and games to go along, medicines, journals, iPod, study abroad info, and most of my books. Luckily I kept my IDs, phone, money, and bank cards on me or he'd have those too. But I've honestly never felt so angry, helpless or betrayed in my life, which for those who know my history is saying something. I legitimately had a panic attack in the street.
So here's the first lesson, which should go without saying but. . . well, apparently I didn't listen the first 20,000 times. Do not ever rely on your mode of transportation, especially where you must entrust the care of yourself or your prized belongings directly to another person. While most of my writing is backed up, I don't know how much of it is. I cried for days after it happened.
The second lesson involves living in Rome. This is where the saying, 'when in Rome' comes in, and they mean it. Cut your showers short, unless you like them ice-cold. Enjoy your surroundings. Watch were the locals eat and shop, and join them. Try not to speak English, that sort of thing. Go out with people and explore. You never know what you'll find.
I would like to stress that while my first week here has added approximately ten years to my face, I'm not entirely unhappy or miserable now. I'm getting to know my flatmates a bit more (they're on the clubbing and pub crawl circuit, I just want to read and explore) and I'm making friends with the other kids in the group. I've been over the guys' apartment several times and have gone to the local pubs to watch soccer games with them, and try to hang out with the other girls when I can. My new drug of choice is a cappuchino with lots of sugar; thankfully the cups are only about the size of my thumb. I do a lot of window shopping and some actual shopping. I still get homesick and have the urge to call home when I'm bored or have nothing to do.
Oh, one last lesson before I do: don't send medication to Italy by Fed-Ex, or any other carrier. Customs will throw a hissy fit.